Gervase Kolmos: Feminine Leadership & Inner Knowing Coach
What It Means to Be a “Modern Phoenix”
Learn how to be a "Modern Phoenix " a woman who has reclaimed her agency and lives her life from a place of sustained self-trust, inner knowing, and active choices.
Gervase Kolmos is a trauma-informed feminine leadership and inner knowing coach, and host of The Modern Phoenix podcast. She helps women burn away old conditioning, heal “good girl” programming, and build a life rooted in self-trust, inner guidance, and embodied agency.
When I was 18 years old, I walked myself into a therapist’s office in NYC, unprompted. My family of origin was like a house on fire, and I had made myself responsible for rescuing everyone. All the while, I still somehow felt like I should be doing more. Like I wasn’t good enough and was failing everyone.
I learned quite a lot about myself and my relationships over the next ten years. I worked on that mother wound and that “good girl” programming. Hard people did not disappear, but my capacity to build better relationships with those people did.
Then came the wild portal that has been motherhood. In 2013, I gave birth to my first of three children. Her birth brought the fire of my personal rebirth. I burned away the corporate career and another layer of conditioning that I thought made me, me.
The next ten years offered more invitations to burn away old versions of who I thought I was and come back stronger and more me. Embracing the paradox of my identity—all my parts and stigmatized feelings.
My own healing journey has led me to facilitate the work I so desperately needed as a coach to create a sense of safety within myself. Since 2014, I’ve been guiding women back home to themselves.
My coaching sessions are intuitively led and trauma-informed. I integrate my trainings in coaching, hypnotherapy and focalizing (a somatic modality for regulation and resolution) to help women untangle who they’ve been conditioned to be from who they actually are. They learn to trust the wisdom of their bodies and souls in collaboration with their logical minds. It’s kind of magical, and we never know what’s going to happen.
If you’re here, you can trust your soul’s whispers that this is not “just the way it is,” and you’re not who you think you are.
A Roadmap to Living Life as You Truly Are, Not as Who They Told You to Be
Break free from overthinking and external validation. In this 8-module, self-paced, transformational program, you’ll learn to reconnect with your inner wisdom, regulate your nervous system, and confidently follow your soul’s guidance.
